Im currently swimming through treacle…
I trained as a teacher 2001-2004 and got a job in secondary education. Seven years later I was made redundant after having my DS.
I then worked in adult education (in a prison setting) for 4 years and then had to leave due to mistreatment.
I now pull pints behind a bar four nights a week…
I am FED UP of people asking me “When are you going to get a proper job?” It feels so degrading. I enjoy what I do but it isn’t my ideal life choice. If only I could be paid to blog as I LOVE IT. I don’t want to be full time as I want to be around for my kids and where I live is extremely limited in job opportunities.
So where will I be in 5 years? Well lets just say 5 years ago I never visualised this…
Oh no, I feel your pain though. I’m just starting to make a living from blogging so don’t give up hope. It’s taken a couple of years of hard slog but is so worth it.
I’m at a different point in life, early retirement and empty nesting, but the feeling’s nearly the same. I have all the time in the world, but end up frittering it away. I feel I need to achieve something before my ‘cut-off’ date! http://maryomsthoughts.blogspot.co.uk/2016/04/another-year-another-birthday.html
It sounds like even short term plans would benefit you right now. My first long term plan many years ago was to avoid empty nest feeling as I was investing so much around my children I wondered what on earth is do when they left home. Best of luck x
Oh honey I SO agree with this! Prioritising What Matters is one of the lessons in my new eCourse and I’m passionate about the effect that goal planning and prioritising can have on our positivity and well-being. Thank you so much for the mention and glad it inspired you! xx
Totally hearing this, although I’m just not sure what my ‘plans’ are. However, I think you’re point about finding your path in the process may apply just as much to the end result, so I’m going to try the process anyway, even though I’m not sure where I want to be and hope that leads me to the some answers. Thanks! #SharetheJoy
Best of luck, sometimes just getting there is enough to be your plan. I’m always re assessing mine.
I am a planner by nature so I totally get this but I also find sometimes that when I over plan I miss some of the ‘now’ as well so I’m learning to balance this a bit more these days #sharethejoylinky
I think our plans often change and that is when we lose our mono – or at least it is for me! I spent most my teenage years thinking I would be a teacher but then ended up doing a degree in languages and hating academia so much. After uni I struggled to find my path, and felt like I was just holding on until I had a family (my life long dream). But then health issues meant that we had to stop after one child and I had to return to work much sooner than planned and I felt like all my dreams had been washed away. Bye bye mojo! Even writing my first book didn’t bring me joy, despite being something I was passionate about. It has taken me a long time to realise my lack of mojo is due to having no real plans for my life, or rather being terrified of making plans for fear of them all falling through! Only now am I starting to find new ideas forming in my mind, so I shall certainly sit down and make some plans 🙂 it’s great to hear how your plans have changed through the years and helped you move forward in your life #sharethejoy
It does sound like you’ve had plans which you’ve achieved so I would celebrate that! I too started out studying to be a teacher then saw how much pressure they faced when working as a TA & it out me right off. I had a few years of no ambition or plans at all which ended up making me really depressed so in back to planning once more. Good luck xx
Well you know I’m going to LOVE this post – and not just because you mentioned my post in it (although thank you so much for that!). I’m a HUGE planner. I have shifted back and forth, over time, between electronic and stationery planners but I’m settled at the moment with my burnt umber A5 Filofax which contains everything I need to do for the quarter. Planning, goal setting and reviewing has been proven to boost our positivity and it is a major part of my Happiness Habits Routine. (In fact, exactly how I do that (along with downloadable planner pages) will be included in my new eCourse – I’m that passionate about it!) Thanks for linking this up at #sharethejoy and good luck with your own plans my friend x
I love the sound of you Folifax. I had a mini one at work but never used it to it’s full potential, I think I need to get on your new ecourse. I’m sending my husband your way to see if it helps him too. I realised after reading you post on getting my life back in check when I was feel very overwhelmed was tantamount to me getting my planners out again. I’d completely lost focus.
Oh gosh! I am a planner too, but on the smaller scale. I have recently tried to get a bit more serious about long term goals but its hard for me to pin them down, seeing as I’ve never had an opportunity to chase my dreams before, leading to a dose of apathy. But I am getting there, I firmly believe that without goals we are without purpose and drive. #Sharethejoy
I’m so with you on that Alice and it was when I was without goals that I really started to struggle and had no purpose. looking back I was probably being too work focused and should have planned for life out of work to make the apathy subside. I love you analogy.
Taking time out to plan can’t be underrated, you need to give yourself space to think and create and plan. Congratulations on getting your mojo back. Now to put those plans into action. #SharetheJoy
Congratulations on planning your way to making your dreams come true. All the best for the next steps 🙂 (I’m not a planner, all of this sounds so alien to me!)
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